2 good sites

This first one is a really good article that speaks to raising modern day pharisees in our children. It was very thought provoking for me (being raised as a "church kid") and more so as we raise our children.

http://www.sfpulpit.com/2007/10/05/raising-pharisees/

This one, Melanie sent to me. It lists some really heart evaluating questions for parents to ask kids to reveal where they are in their spiritual life.
http://theologica.blogspot.com/2007/09/questions-for-kids.html